What a month this is! Hitting a weight loss goal, becoming a year older, and the coolest thing of all- celebrating twenty (20) years of matrimony.

That's right, this Wednesday my wife will have completed twenty years of a life sentence that can be best described as "cruel and unusual" while I on the other hand will mark the twentieth installment of an eternal wedded bliss annuity.

It truly has been wonderful; I have an awesome wife and great kids and all are inspiring, challenging, and motivating. Best of all, they don't seem to mind my presence all that much. Good times.

I really don't have to look very far for reasons to work towards being healthy. There are way too many things that I don't want to miss due to illness or disability; too many things I want to see my kids accomplish, memories to create, aisles to walk, etc.

It's not all selfishness. I want to be there to help them meet the challenges they'll face in life- as a hand, a shoulder, a resource.

I'd be hard-pressed to do much of that from hospital furniture or an urn on the mantle.

That's much of why I want to improve myself physically. I also want to improve the other aspects of what constitutes a "Steve" er, I mean, me.

I hereby dedicate this next year to not only losing another 40 pounds but improving myself in other ways as well. I'll focus on being a better husband, father, friend, and all around dude.

I got so many reasons WHY, HOW is going to be really cool. Stay tuned.

Today, my bride and I will head off for a little vacation. We've farmed the kids out to a few friends so it's just us- off for a little beach and sun not unlike we did two decades ago.

In the meanwhile, don't eat this: Men's Health Magazine - Worst Food in America.

6 comments

  1. Andrew is getting fit // June 22, 2008 1:22 PM  

    Congrats on hitting 20 years! She sounds like a wonderful woman.

  2. Skinny Guy // June 22, 2008 5:17 PM  

    Congratulations to you and the missus. We are lucky that they put up with us, aren't we? ;)

    Me & mine have about 18 months until we hit 25 years - I hope she doesn't strangle me before then...

    Enjoy the beach time!

  3. Antonio Howell, M.D. // June 24, 2008 4:43 AM  

    Congrats Steve.

    Remember the vigintennial anniversary gift is china.

  4. john - from fat to fit // June 25, 2008 9:31 PM  

    Congrats on the anniversary! We just celebrated our 12th

  5. Steve // June 26, 2008 10:58 AM  

    Thanks everyone! My wife's tolerance level is sky-high and expectations down-low. I'm one very lucky guy.

    @Skinny - 25 years is a really milestone. I guess why they award the "silver" for that one.

    @antonio - I thought "vigintennial" was what I would be on my wedding night. OK, no I didn't but if I did it would be kind of goofy. Thanks for the gift reminder!

  6. Carol Bardelli // June 26, 2008 11:50 AM  

    Hey Steve, congratulations on your anniversary! Don't sweat the cheat, they usually are necessary for our mental health!

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